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| 01 | The saga of Smudge |
| 02 | Ruby’s Journey |
| 03 | The two Lives of Lazarus |
My husband Paris has a weakness for kittens.
On one fine morning
in the spring, we set out to shop in downtown Aegina – the
island where we now live. I went into the bakery for bread, my husband went
to the electrical shop. When he returned, he had something under his jacket
that was not an electrical item. Cuddled up to his warm chest was a small,
sick black and white kitten.
We took her home and nursed her. She survived
but her respiratory system was badly damaged and she never fully recovered
from
that flu virus. Her
nose was always runny, her breathing laboured, her chest congested. But she
was anything but a pathetic cat. In fact, she was the character of the house
and my husband’s favourite.
He called her Smudge or Smudgie. She loved
him back, unreservedly, passionately, nuzzling him, sitting on him, purring
beside
him, looking up at him lovingly,
watching TV with him; they were a pair. Because of her delicate health, we
didn’t have her spayed; we didn’t think she could survive the
anesthetic. In any case, she didn’t come into heat, at least not that
first year. But one day, Smudge disappeared. Paris searched high and low
for her all over the neighbourhood for weeks and just when he had given up,
she appeared back in the yard, as sick as ever. Paris was convinced someone
had locked her up. “She’s terrified. I can feel it,” he
said. “That’s why shy didn’t come home; she’s been
locked up.”
Smudge seemed very happy to be home and the nursing
began again. She gained weight and seemed better than ever. Then, how did
we not notice it? She came
into heat and got pregnant. In our defense, we had a bunch of dogs and about
25 cats and it’s hard to be aware of everything that goes on. But it
was soon obvious to us that Smudge was pregnant. She began to give birth
on our covered verandah in what we call the ‘polykatoikia’ – an
open cupboard with a series of shelves full of soft cat sleepers. After finding
her with one kitten, we brought her into the house and she gave birth to
three of them. One died almost immediately, the other two, a black one we
called Murphy and a black and white one called Sylvester. Smudge loved being
a mother and she put all her energy into it. It was the proudest moment of
her life and we were all happy for her.
Smudge lived with us for about three
years before she succumbed to the illness that constantly plagued her. We
did get her spayed and she survived the operation
nicely and got as healthy as she could ever be. But it was always an up and
down situation as it is with any chronic sickness and finally, Smudge was
so congested, she could hardly breathe; her fur got lank and greasy, her
zest for life diminished. She enjoyed herself most sitting on Paris lap.
Finally, she died. Paris cried.
Sometimes when I’m with her son Murphy, I remind him about his mother. “Do
you remember her Murphy. She was such as wonderful cat and you’re a
bit like her,” I tell him, and he looks up at me very proudly.
Written by Elizabeth Koubena
Ruby’s Journey
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I met Ruby and her
two brothers Ginger and Sammy in May 1990. The three of them were born in
a taverna to a stray cat. Unwanted, someone brought
them to my friend Lucille’s shop. I had only met Lucille a short time
before that, quite by accident. Shopping with my mother, I was drawn to a
poster in her window of animals looking for home and upon finding out that
the store owner was a fellow Canadian, struck up a conversation and one thing
led to another and we became friends. She took in unwanted animals and homed
them; the large basement in her store was full of clothes and animals. The
day Ruby and her siblings arrived, Lucille had a number of other kittens
that were sick with flu. “I have nowhere else to put them”, she
told me, “they’ll get sick too I’m afraid but what can
I do.”
“ I’ll take them for a few weeks”, I said. Famous
last words. Ruby and Ginger have been with me for almost 11 years; Sammy
lives
with my mother in Canada. But back then, the kittens were very thin although
not sick. I took them home. They got sick immediately. Ringworm, cat flu,
diarrhea; then they all got the mange. Ruby was a little tougher than the
boys and helped me nurse them, mothering them, washing them and keeping them
warm. For herself, she asked little. As young as she was, she had strength
of character and an independent air about her. She tolerated people but when
she had enough cuddling, she would let us know with a low growl and we learned
to respect her wishes.
One night I thought Ginger wouldn’t make it.
I held him cuddled in my arms, keeping him warm, praying for him and Ruby
sat beside me. The two
boys did eventually get better and as they improved, Ruby lost interest in
them. She really was her own cat. Today, even though she has lived with her
brother Ginger all these years, she barely tolerates him.
But let me tell
you about Ruby’s journey. Ruby grew up in our apartment
in Athens; it was large with lots of balcony space but still an apartment.
When we moved to a rented house on the island of Aegina in 1995, she slowly
began to explore outside. We fenced in the last yard for the cats but they
managed to make holes to get out. One day Ruby disappeared. I looked all
over the neighborhood for her. No Ruby. A month went by. I imagined the worst.
Then one warm summer day when the closest beach to our house was full of
people I decided to take another road down to a small, secluded clove where
fewer people went. As I was walking by a house, I saw some cats in the yard.
One was a calico, just like Ruby. I called her name and she came to me. It
WAS Ruby. I was so glad to have found her, I just scooped her up in my arms
and walked back home. She came quite willingly, as if it was the most natural
thing for her to have moved to this house for a month without telling us!
But the story doesn’t end there.
The next summer we moved to the new
house we had just built. We moved all the animals, at that time three dogs
and 15 cats, including Ruby. Within
days, cats went missing; they returned to our old house, about 5 km away.
I brought them back but they left again. I gave up and decided to set up
a feeding station in the old neighborhood. Up to this point, Ruby was still
feeling her wings in the new house. I knew that she was unhappy about Deux
Cheveux, a black cat she was petrified of, coming to live with us. (My husband
had rescued him from inside the motor of a Deux Cheveux car in Aegina town.)
But I figured she’d get used to him. But one day, she disappeared again!
I returned to the old house to feed the cats but there was no sign of Ruby.
A month went by. Again, I feared the worst. Then, one day, as I came into
the yard of the old house, miracle upon miracles, there was Ruby in the driveway.
“ Ruby”, I said, “do you want to come home with us or not?” I
opened the back door of the car and she looked at me for a moment and then
climbed into the back seat of the car. Shortly thereafter Deux Cheveux left
us and Ruby settled into our new home with a different attitude.
Ruby has
class. She waits patiently for her meals and is a neat eater; she doesn’t mess in the house and doesn’t
fight with other cats. She sleeps elegantly in my knitting basket. She has
a weakness for sweet
things. This started when she was young and my mother used to share her morning
toast and jam with her. Now, if I am about to eat a croissant, piece of cake,
toast and jam or chocolate, Ruby will suddenly appear before me and demand
a piece. I have left chocolates on the table only to find the empty wrappings
in the morning. You would think so much chocolate would make her sick but
she seems to thrive on it.
Ruby has both self-respect and respect for humans.
And when occasionally she shows her warm feelings for us and honors us by
climbing up on my lap
or on my husband’s chest, purring and gazing into our eyes, we feel
privileged to share our lives with her.
Written by Elizabeth Koubena
The two Lives of Lazarus
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It was a rainy Sunday and we were driving on the sea coastal road
of Athens on our way to Piraeus to see my mother-in-law. As we stopped
at a red light,
we noticed a dog lying by the side of the road; there was a lot of traffic
and no place to stop and park but then we saw a man and a woman were walking
over to where the dog lay and it looked like they were going to help him.
We couldn’t get him out of our minds, however, so we left my mother-in-law’s
early and turned off the road near where we had seen him and walked around
the area. There was no sign of the dog but just as we were about to go back
to our car, we saw the two people with the dog in a wheel barrow coming out
of someone’s yard. It turned out to be a veterinary clinic. We approached
them and inquired about the dog and they informed us that he had a broken
leg but that the vet would only treat him for money and they couldn’t
afford to pay. Looking at them, we understood. They lived nearby but had
no car. They borrowed a wheel barrow in order to bring the dog to this clinic.
They looked really upset that the vet wouldn’t treat him. We went back
inside and told the vet we would pay the dog’s treatment and his
stay in their kennel and would visit the dog every day until he could be
released.
We hoped to find his home before then.
And so began the saga of Lazarus. He
was a big white Labrador type dog, very gentle, very intelligent, very grateful
to be somewhere safe. We brought
him extra food; talked to him; talked to the man who looked after the dogs
in the kennel; paid the vet (he was a thief and not a very good vet either
but our daily visits ensured that the dog got decent care). Finally, despite
putting posters all over the area trying to find the home he had come from,
because it was obvious he was not a street dog, we had to face the fact that
he had nowhere to go. And we had no choice but to bring him home.
We had no
other dogs at that time and our cats were not amused at having a dog in the
house. We borrowed a dog house and put it on the large protected
balcony. My husband walked the dog; I fed him. We got quite fond of him but
felt that apartment life was not for him and looked for a new home for him.
After eight months, we found a family willing to adopt him, but in another
European country. Still, we had come this far and felt this was the best
we could do for him. Early one morning, my husband took Lazarus out for a
walk; within 10 minutes he was back with Lazarus and another man.
“ You’ll never guess what happened”, he began. “This
man came up to me when I was walking the dog and asked me if it was mine.
I asked him why he was asking. He said that about nine months ago, his dog
had disappeared; he looked just like this one and his name was Gino.” Up
until this point, the dog hadn’t acknowledged the man but upon hearing
the name Gino, he suddenly was all over him. The man owned a business about
12 city blocks from us and Gino had gotten out of the yard one day when a
female in the area was in heat. Obviously Gino/Lazarus’s accident and
his subsequent life with us had prevented him from returning home. The three
of us sat down and discussed the situation. After all this time, to suddenly
find Gino’s old home came as a bit of a shock. We agreed that we
would bring the dog around to them that evening and the man left.
The whole family
greeted Gino and it was obviously their fondness was mutual. They offered
to pay for his medical treatment and our keeping him for all
those months but we said that we would rather they buy him a proper dog
house. They agreed. “We’ll be back to visit”, we said. And we
did indeed go back, at least once a week. Even when the family weren’t
there, my husband would call “Lazarus” and the dog would come
running and nuzzle his nose against my husband’s hand through the
fence.
This
went on for about two years and then one day when we drove around, Lazarus
wasn’t there. We phoned the family and they told us that the
dog had had a seizure and they were waiting to see what the diagnosis was;
sadly he had a brain tumor and died shortly thereafter.
Lazarus was the first
Greek dog we really got to know and he prepared us for our future involvement
in SPAZ and animal welfare work and the many other
dogs we would find that needed help.
Written by Elizabeth Koubena